Healing

I've started to realize how much time I spend worrying about the things I cannot change. I feel like with my kids, with my everyday life, my work and myself, I would be so much more happier if I didn't have to worry about things or how I could make them more perfect.  For instance, I struggle with my house and trying to keep it clean.  With 3 kids it has become a lost battle, everyday my house is less than perfect, but yet, I spend the time worrying about how I can clean it, or if I just cleaned it a little, I could relax.  That time, that energy I could have spent enjoying some time with my husband or kids, or even better... much deserved me time.   Today I am going to work on not worrying about the things I cannot change.  Accept that my house will never be perfect, and stop trying to think that it possibly will.   So when my dishes have overcome my kitchen sink, I will not fret and know that there are more important things in life.