http://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/perfectionism.htm
Perfectionism Overcoming All-or-Nothing Thinking
All credit goes to Mindtools.com, however there was some very interesting points I wanted to share that I took from the article:
How to Spot Perfectionism
It can be quite easy to recognize maladaptive perfectionism in yourself, if this is a problem. Look for some of these traits in your own actions and behavior:
- You have very high or unrealistic goals. If you can't be the very best, you sometimes give up.
- You see any mistake as a failure, and if someone does a task or project better than you, you feel that you've failed.
- You might also conceal your mistakes from others.
- You often hand work in late, because you keep redoing it, or you keep procrastinating.
- You feel uncomfortable whenever you don't achieve your definition of perfection.
- You don't like taking risks, because there is then no guarantee that you can do the task perfectly.
- You stick with safer tasks, because you know that you can achieve them.
- You don't enjoy the process of learning and working; you only care about the result.
- You often exhibit all-or-nothing thinking: either something is perfect, or it's a failure.
- You have an unhealthy attachment to others' opinions.
- You feel that if your flaws are exposed, others will reject you.
- You don't handle criticism and feedback well.
- You may apply your own unrealistic standards to those around you, becoming critical when colleagues don't meet those expectations. As a result, you may not have many close relationships at work.
- You have a difficult time delegating tasks to others.
Do you recognize any of these traits in yourself?
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